My Perspective: Why Marriages Fail by Annie Roiphe

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 The author starts the writing with well-known phrases "Happily ever after" and; "Til death do us part," saying they are soon outdated. Then adds rhetorical questions to solidify her cause and effect argument "Why Marriages Fail." 

According to the author, there are multiple reasons marriages fail, but some survive despite imperfections. 

"Each marriage has crisis points and, each marriage tests endurance, the capacity for both intimacy and change."

Yes, marriages do test all those points. Hence, individuals consider it to be a full-time job and, over time. (I think I just quoted Marlon Wayan in Naked). Communication, comprehension and, an understanding of your partners' boundaries and love language is necessary. Additionally, Roiphe says, " the struggle to survive in marriage requires adaptability, flexibility, genuine love and kindness and an imagination strong enough to feel what the other is feeling."

To close, Annie Roiphe noted that "divorce is not an evil act." Divorce can be an escape from "mutual unhappiness." Some individuals who get divorced were unable to compromise for the individual growth of their partner.

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