My Perspective: Visiting Rites by Susan Musgrave

 The author writes about the heartbreaking, not so lovely experience of having her husband locked behind bars. Musgrave describes the deceitfulness of the outside scenery with its "fairy tale castle-hotel" appearance and says one should take a closer look because "it's a dungeon." Moreover, she speaks about the facility being a mental hospital. Her feelings of committing herself for shock therapy; and how she wished she was with her husband "lying by him."

I was shocked when the author brought the memory of her being married in the same "sensory - deprivation chamber," waiting to see her husband that later declined visitation. She explained it as "drug withdrawal" to no surprise. However, her holding the toilet paper until it was "soon the size of a spitball" made her feelings of betrayal show more. When she said that " prison was not an easy place to escape, even if they release you," it holds some truth. I was able to see through her experience that even if you are not the one behind bars, your life could spiral too. The consequences of her husbands' actions also impacted her life. Though she may not physically be in there with him, part of her is with him.

In all, Susan Musgrave speaks in honesty about the overwhelming experience of having someone you love locked up. She battles against various emotions such as; feeling lost and sadness. However, Musgrave notes that somedays it is like nothing is missing. She has freedom in her love. Furthermore, using a simile to refer to her husband as the wind.

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